Where Can I Get Married?
When we founded this business back in 1999, no states -- zero, zilch, nada -- offered legal marriage recognition for same sex couples. At the time, we were simply doing our best to innovate by being a voice for change while providing hard-to-find products for couples who were creating ceremonies for themselves, without the help of lawmakers.
But, at last! The day we have dreamed of is upon us! Couples may now choose to live in one of several states which offers legal recognition for same sex couples.
Legal requirements differ in each of these states & countries, but many GayWeddings.com clients want to learn more about how to get legally married or seek a Civil Union and where they can go.
Here are a few resources, including links to find information for registering for a civil union or marriage license in applicable jurisdictions:
District of Columbia
How to apply for a marriage license in D.C..
Massachusetts:
GLAD's How To Get Married Guide
Vermont:
The Vermont Guide to Civil Unions
Marriage Certificate order form
Connecticut:
A comprehensive look at state laws
FAQs from the Connecticut state website
Maine:
In Nov. 09, voters overturned legislation allowing same sex couples to marry.
Hawaii:
Bill authorizing civil unions lands on Governor's desk. Updates to follow!
Iowa:
Tips for an Iowa marriage
New Jersey:
Information for a New Jersey Civil Union License
New Hampshire:
Your Honor, I Do
Requirements and information for marriage licenses
California:
Tying the knot in California, 2008
Proposition 8 has nullified gay marriage.
Canada:
Information on the legal implications of a Canada gay marriage from the Human Rights Campaign
UK:
General Register Office for the UK
Other Countries:
International gay marriage rights from the Human Rights Campaign
As always, we encourage you to contact a lawyer to discuss your personal situation, local laws, and how this decision in unchartered territory may or may not affect you!
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